Episode 25 breaks apart the belief that Pleasure is so
The time has come to talk about sex in a more spiritual, soul
filling way and my guest Irene Fehr is all about that! Are
you so scared to ask for it, receive it, surrender to it, and give
yourselves permission to like sex, money or power? Has life or pain
filled up so much that you can't enjoy it? This episode is going to
open your mind up to how your ability to be intimate can
deeply affect your psyche and invade your physical health,
self-view, lifestyle, success, and pain!
The Guilt, The Fear Around Wanting it
I know many conservative women in my old clinical practice
struggled with the guilt, fear, and authority to call the shots in
the bedroom. I have seen how that inner dialogue can play off as
pain in the body. I have seen some pretty tight pelvic floors and
stress related conditions show up in the muscles of the
pelvis, jaw, hips and low back and upon healing, we find that this
pattern of hold in the body had much more to do with feeling
bad inside about wanting pleasure than actually not having it
When Being Touched Feels Wrong
I have also seen many women deal with years of painful periods
after being sexually abused and avoid being intimate with that body
area due to dysfunction. It is as if the body is punishing
the woman for not receiving pleasure or is caught up in mind/body
loop to guard against passive entry.
Sometimes we are protecting
ourselves from a history of receiving it the wrong way.
Irene Fehr knows all about that.
As an Intimacy & Sexuality Coach, advocate, adventurer,
and healer Irene is on a mission to help people have more love into
their sex life and more sex into their love life. Known for
authentically sharing her own personal experiences as a sexually
empowered woman, Irene gives permission to others to explore their
authentic selves in uncharted territory.
In this Talk we explore:
- The myths and sadness making pleasure being a taboo
- How Irene leads women and couples on a journey of
sexual growth, expansion and connection.
- How receiving, as in the role of our bodies during sex, is
actually a really feminine force of abundance, surrender, and flow
into our minds and bodies.
- How important it is to change the the way sexual
health has been historically linked to two things: STDs
and avoidance of pregnancy for our sons and daughters.
- She ends our call with a really wonderful gift for everyone to
learn SO MUCH MORE. ( See the link in the notes below)
Irene offers a "Sexual growth
which dives passionately into sexual
problems ( no pun intended). She has graciously offered our
listeners an invite into her support with her Free
: From Tired to Turned On: 3 Steps to Reigniting
Desire & Wanting Sex Again. Go grab it and enjoy your next
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